Sunday, June 19, 2016

It's Not About What You Do, But How You Think About What You Do

After reading the “Just Quit” your job survey results it has occurred to me that people in most every profession is and/or could be miserable doing what they are doing.

It’s not about the profession.

It’s about the mindset while working in that profession.

This makes me think of Tolstoy’s three questions:Three questions

Here people are in lives where they have to work for a living.  They are the wage earners. Most people are miserable going to work everyday. It doesn’t seem to matter how much they are paid.  Doesn’t seem to matter the title. Still, they are miserable.  

So, then what are the answers to Tolstoy’s questions?Three answers

It does NOT matter what you are doing.  It matters what you THINK about what you are doing NOW.  

Get beyond wanting to leave.  Get beyond wanting to be in another/different profession.  Just be okay with what is right now.  

Yep, you are miserable. GET OVER IT. Until you can get over it, it will continue, no matter if you leave where you are, go someplace else…you’ll end up miserable again.  

Challenge: be happy in your misery…embrace the suck.  If you can do that you can move on…until then…misery will follow you where ever you go.

Don’t believe me….below are the professions of folks who are miserable enough to complete the “Just Quit” your job survey… just this month:

  
AccreditationYesterday, 6:19PM
WriterYesterday, 5:15PM
ManagerYesterday, 3:44AM
ManufacturingFriday, Jun 17th 2:31PM
Claims adjudicatorFriday, Jun 17th 8:41AM
casino jobThursday, Jun 16th 7:41PM
casino jobThursday, Jun 16th 7:41PM
Part time Cashier and CatererThursday, Jun 16th 6:38PM
Project Manager Engineer/Microelectronics/technologyThursday, Jun 16th 11:20AM
customer care specialistThursday, Jun 16th 12:33AM
AccountingWednesday, Jun 15th 11:40AM
Slot techWednesday, Jun 15th 11:46AM
Slot techWednesday, Jun 15th 11:46AM
Public servantWednesday, Jun 15th 7:22AM
MusicianWednesday, Jun 15th 4:17AM
Development assistantTuesday, Jun 14th 7:46PM
Retail mamanagementTuesday, Jun 14th 3:12PM
Garbo truck driverTuesday, Jun 14th 9:04AM
DentistTuesday, Jun 14th 1:59AM
mental healthMonday, Jun 13th 6:05PM
AccountantMonday, Jun 13th 5:31PM
Telecom EngineerMonday, Jun 13th 3:26PM
Assistant Account Manager/Retail/DesignMonday, Jun 13th 11:39AM
RetailSunday, Jun 12th 2:38PM
ITSunday, Jun 12th 1:06PM
AccountingSunday, Jun 12th 9:27AM
receptionistSunday, Jun 12th 8:56AM
Design engineerSaturday, Jun 11th 3:19AM
Human resource directorSaturday, Jun 11th 1:38AM
attorneyFriday, Jun 10th 11:11PM
Training & DevelopmentThursday, Jun 9th 11:35PM
Museum/Arts/EducationThursday, Jun 9th 11:02PM
Customer ServiceThursday, Jun 9th 10:34PM
NonprofitThursday, Jun 9th 5:29PM
Food safety officerThursday, Jun 9th 5:45PM
HospitalityThursday, Jun 9th 4:49PM
SalesThursday, Jun 9th 11:23AM
engineeringThursday, Jun 9th 9:24AM
engineerThursday, Jun 9th 6:53AM
disability support workerThursday, Jun 9th 3:57AM
AccountantThursday, Jun 9th 12:03AM
InsuranceWednesday, Jun 8th 11:54PM
BankingWednesday, Jun 8th 11:34PM
FinanceWednesday, Jun 8th 9:40PM
RetailWednesday, Jun 8th 5:32PM
E commerceWednesday, Jun 8th 3:53PM
Admin PRWednesday, Jun 8th 3:17PM
Software ConsultantWednesday, Jun 8th 1:49PM
Resturant managementWednesday, Jun 8th 12:39PM
Pharmaceutical IndustryTuesday, Jun 7th 9:55PM
ExportTuesday, Jun 7th 2:32PM
i am on dis abilityTuesday, Jun 7th 11:09AM
Email marketingTuesday, Jun 7th 6:41AM
recruitMonday, Jun 6th 5:17PM
SuperintendentMonday, Jun 6th 2:16PM
administrative assistantMonday, Jun 6th 1:36PM
ManufacturingMonday, Jun 6th 10:41AM
EducationSunday, Jun 5th 9:58PM
DesignerSunday, Jun 5th 8:35PM
Cashier/supervisorSunday, Jun 5th 3:32AM
CNASunday, Jun 5th 3:29AM
OilSaturday, Jun 4th 6:02PM
journalistSaturday, Jun 4th 11:11AM
Banker; Team Lead Financial LiteracySaturday, Jun 4th 10:27AM
Pharmacy student assistant jobFriday, Jun 3rd 6:30AM
LogisticsFriday, Jun 3rd 5:50AM
Director of Patient ExperienceThursday, Jun 2nd 5:30PM
PurchasingThursday, Jun 2nd 3:25PM
AccountantThursday, Jun 2nd 10:11AM
Assistant Director of Guest ExperienceWednesday, Jun 1st 11:11PM
Investor RelationsWednesday, Jun 1st 8:37PM
RetailWednesday, Jun 1st 8:55PM
7th grade ELA teacherWednesday, Jun 1st 6:52PM
Personal AssistantWednesday, Jun 1st 4:52AM

Today and everyday when you wake up don’t think about how miserable you are.  Even if you want to be doing something difference (and especially if you don’t know what that something different is) think about how you COULD be happy doing what you’re doing, right where you are with the people you are with….why?….because it will help you move on.  

You WILL move on.  Why?  Life is about change. Eventually things will change, don’t delay change by NOT learning the lesson of how to sing while walking in the storm. SING, SMILE. RISE ABOUT IT.

Saturday, June 4, 2016

Be Grateful When Things Don't Work Out

Why? 

Because what you had planned was TOO SMALL. 

  • If you are stressing right now about your job..STOP STRESSING.
  • If you are desperate to get out of your job situation…STOP BEING DESPERATE.
  • If you don’t think you can go another day working where you are working…STOP TRIPPING.

STOP.

Things could be horrible where you work, but going to another job does not mean it’s going to be ANY better. JUST QUIT is NOT about a JOB.  JUST QUIT is NOT about a CAREER…or a PROFESSION…IT IS ABOUT YOUR LIFE. It’s about planning your life.

So if you have been looking for a job, not getting interviews or even if you are getting interviews and you are not getting the jobs…STOP STRESSING, BEING DESPERATE and TRIPPING.

Ask yourself the below three questions?

  1. Today, if you had all the money that you needed to live for the REST OF YOUR LIFE what would you do?
  2. Today, if you went to the doctors and they told you that you had five more years to live what would you do?
  3. Today, if you went to the doctors and they told you that you only had 24 hours to live, what would you have WISHED you would have done with your life?

I can bet you that GET ANOTHER JOB is not the answer to any of those questions. IF you do still have a job…be grateful…some people don’t and can’t find one. So first be grateful that you have a job and if you have a job with a decent salary, benefits and a 401K/pension you should be getting down on your knees and praying to God or whoever you pray to because you are doing better than most people.  This is sad, but this the world we live in.

Bigger-Better-Bolder

Change your perspective about your life and start planning to do those things you WANT to do.  Figure that out.  What do you want to do? What do you want to accomplish? While you are miserable in your job, figure it out.  Nobody can get inside of your head and make you STRESS about your job, EXCEPT you.  If you take control of your mind (your thoughts) then you can manage to get up, go in and be THINKING about what you want to do and DOING something about it in your free time. What is that you say?  You’re depressed? You’re drained after your job?  Well JOIN THE CLUB.  It’s a worldwide problem, people.  It’s not just you. Know that this is a worldwide phenomena, of people working in meaningless stressful jobs.  

So, if your mediocre plans aren’t working out…GREAT…you’ve been spared…because…you’re supposed to do something BIGGER, BETTER, BOLDER with your life.

NOW….GET UP and GET STARTED