Wednesday, February 1, 2017

Getting The Keys...Starting a Business

Starting a business is HARD.  It is A LOT of work. It is A LOT of red tape and wondering if things are going to work out and come together in time.

I said I would blog about this: 1. So I could document the process; 2. So it can help others who want to start a business and 3.  To serve as a reminder of how far I’ve come.  So, here is what it took to get these keys:

Step#1: Formed the business as a LLC for liability purposes.  This was as easy as going on the State Corporation Commissions website and completing the information electronically.  Paying the $100 and getting the Certificate of Organization and Articles of Organization.  It is the Articles of Organization that everyone will need to see.

Step#2: Getting the Employer Identification Number or EIN was harder.  At first it seemed like it was going to be as easy as getting the LLC established.  Not so.  First, you can do it on-line BUT with my first attempt I went through most of the screens only to get a message back that you could only do it during the hours the IRS has agents working 7 a.m. – 10 p.m.  It didn’t give me that message until I was half way thru the online forms.  So, do it during those hours.

I waited until the next day and tried it again.  I get thru all of the screens and then got a  NOPE we can’t help you online and they gave me a 101 CODE and a phone number to call (keep that number because it is hard to find it again).  This is where it got red-tape-y.  I called that number, was on hold about 20 minutes, got an agent, gave her the code and she told me that I couldn’t apply on-line because the name of my business was too common.  I needed to either mail (4-5 week turnaround) or fax (4-5 day turnaround) a paper form SS-4 along with the Articles of Organization for the LLC.  Of course I chose the fax option.  Now, with the fax option they want to FAX the EIN number back to you.  I don’t have a fax machine…who does anymore???…so you have to call them back in 4-5 days to get the EIN number over the phone. Red Tape.

Step #3 Getting a bank account.  They want the Articles of Organization and a LTR 147 C from the IRS with the EIN number on it.  Of course I didn’t have the 147 C because I didn’t have a fax number, so I called the IRS back, waited 30 minutes asked the agent to fax the form to the bank’s fax number.  I opened the bank account. I ordered Business Checks.  I got information about Merchants Services to compare it to using Square.  Yet to be determined.

Step #4 Reviewing the Lease. Depending on the complexity of the lease I would recommend you get a lawyer to review it for you.  I happen to have worked in purchasing for 15 years on and off again, so I have read many legal documents, terms and conditions and felt comfortable with it. If you don’t have this experience, get a lawyer.

Step #5 Getting Business Insurance.  I had already been told that with 3 or more employees you need Worker’s Comp. and since it’s only me for now, I was good on that end.  You do however need Comprehensive, Building and Contents insurance.  Apparently $1M comp and $100K building is standard and then for retail something called Plate Glass Insurance is needed.  There were loads of other add-on’s like Terrorism Protection which was only $2 additional per year (I got that since I’m now living in a military town…NASA Langley, AirForce, Army…all of that is here)  I didn’t get a lot of the other add-ons.

Step #6 Insurance Certificate.  Your landlord might ask for that. You get it from the Insurance Company.

Step #7 Business License. If you’re in a building you have to go to zoning first.  Once zoning gives the okay then you can get the business license. The tax rate will depend on what type of business that you are starting.  The business license itself is about $50.00.

I worked on all of the above during the month of January, in order to get the keys…

 

 

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

Native American Code of Ethics

Since Thanksgiving I’ve been researching and drawn to all things Native American. I think maybe because my grandmother was Cherokee, I’m back on Virginia soil, and maybe because I think about what happened to them and the loss of their land and culture.

I found the below Native American Code of Ethics and many of these resonate with me as a way to live.

  1. Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often.
    The Great Spirit will listen, if you only speak.
    I wake up now at 4:30 a.m. to get to work early and have since learned the value of rising early. Add prayer to the reading of the Tao. The Great Spirit will listen.
    2. Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path.
    Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem
    from a lost soul. Pray that they will find guidance.
    ~More prayer.  The bullies, the mean, the angry, the lost. Don’t judge them, pray for them. 
    3.Search for yourself, by yourself. Do not allow others
    to make your path for you. It is your road, and
    yours alone. Others may walk it with you,
    but no one can walk it for you.
    ~This has never been a problem for me.  I learned this lesson as the youngest of a family of superstar athletes. Track, basketball…tried them all…but ended up going my own way in HS with politics, tennis and acting. Have been following my own path ever since. Being willing to fail helps you win the battle of finding your own path. 
    4. Treat the guests in your home with much consideration.
    Serve them the best food, give them the best
    bed and treat them with respect and honor.
    ~I’ve never been a very good hostess.  I just tell people to make themselves at home. I’ll have to work on this one, especially as a shop owner. 
    5. Do not take what is not yours whether from
    a person, a community,the wilderness or from a
    culture. It was not earned nor given. It is not yours.
    ~Wow, coming from Native Americans and the lost of their entire culture and land. This is deep. I like this especially as I think of a program to help reduce crime in the Hampton Roads community. 
    6. Respect all things that are placed upon
    this earth – whether it be people or plant.
    ~I agree. I remember a time in Charlotte when the birds were my best friends. I wouldn’t dream of a day going by without having bird food in their bird feeder. 
    7. Honor other people’s thoughts, wishes and words.
    Never interrupt another or mock or rudely mimic them.
    Allow each person the right to personal expression.
    ~When I read this I thought about how much I need to work on this one. I will work on this one daily. 
    8. Never speak of others in a bad way. The negative
    energy that you put out into the universe
    will multiply when it returns to you.
    ~Another good one. 
    9. All persons make mistakes.
    And all mistakes can be forgiven.
    ~Don’t hold grudges.  I was a master at this…holding grudges. I’ve worked on it over the years, so this is easier for me to do. I found holding grudges just held you in the past.  The older I’ve gotten the less time I feel I have and zero for living in the past. 
    10.Bad thoughts cause illness of the mind,
    body and spirit. Practice optimism.
    I agree.  Every time I hear the term “mental health” I think isn’t that just the mental chatter or internal dialogue?  What else is it other than your thoughts? Then I think about people who don’t meditate and wonder when do they ever get a break from all of that noise in their heads? You have to balance it with mantras and positive thoughts or it becomes mental illness.   
    11. Nature is not FOR us, it is a PART of us.
    They are part of your worldly family.
    ~True. 
    12. Children are the seeds of our future. Plant
    love in their hearts and water them with
    wisdom and life’s lessons. When they
    are grown, give them space to grow.

13. Avoid hurting the hearts of others.
The poison of your pain will return to you.
~Remember this everyday. Do not hurt others with my words, behavior or even thoughts. Counterbalance any hurtful thoughts with: “May you be happy.”
14. Be truthful at all times. Honesty is the
test of one’s will within this universe.
~Honesty.
15. Keep yourself balanced. Your Mental self, Spiritual
self, Emotional self, and Physical self – all need
to be strong, pure and healthy. Work out
the body to strengthen the mind. Grow
rich in spirit to cure emotional ails.
~Balanced is planned.  It’s not haphazard. 
16. Make conscious decisions as to who
you will be and how you will react. Be
responsible for your own actions.
~Like the part about “how you will react”. Part of that is controlling emotions. 
17. Respect the privacy and personal space of
others. Do not touch the personal property of
others – especially sacred and religious
objects. This is forbidden.
~I can see how Native Americans see this as important. This is their land. American really belongs to them. They are the parents of this land. 
18. Be true to yourself first. You cannot
nurture and help others if you cannot
nurture and help yourself first.
For me this is about being healthy. After having a bad cold over the holidays this rings true…health is the first wealth. 
19. Respect others religious beliefs.
Do not force your belief on others.
~ I never could “knock on doors” I just couldn’t “make” others believe my “truth” just because I thought I’d found it.  People are entitled to their own beliefs. 
20. Share your good fortune with others.
Participate in charity.

All I keep thinking about when I think about the gift shop is being able to give back to the local community. I am looking forward to giving 10% to a local charity or a school. 

 

Source:Walking Times

Thursday, December 29, 2016

New Year, New Venture

How many people want to start their own business?  Many do.

How many actually open their own business?  Some do.

How many succeed in small business. Few do.

After many years of creating business plans, buying business cards, “talking” about starting a business I’m finally going to open a brick and mortar business. It’s not just any building, it’s the same building that my father ran a local barber shop for 40 years. It’s like a dream come true. Walking in the building after all these years was magical for me.

As I sit here over the holiday’s I can still hear my father telling me: “If you know what you want, it’s already there.”   I know that building is it; I know that local artisan concept is it; I know that giving back to the local community is it. It’s almost like there is a pent-up need and the timing is right.  Time will tell.  No matter.  It will be a place that I want to go, a place I want to create and shop and be.  I’ll more than likely be documenting my journey on this blog as I transition to a business owner.

The Richardson’s 512 E. Mercury Blvd. Hampton, VA

Creative Space and Gift Shop

How the space looks today 12/16

Sunday, October 30, 2016

Never Say Never

Never say never because you don’t know what the future holds.

Case in point: I’m back in purchasing, but with a twist.  I’m combining purchasing and training by working in procurement compliance.  It pretty fascinating because I can blend one thing I have years of experience in with the thing I do naturally. Although I thought I’d never want to go back into purchasing I feel like I’m at home with the purchasing discipline.  It’s been like riding a bicycle and a skill that I’ve missed using over the years.

So, never say never.  Don’t shut the door on your opportunities because you think you know what is best.  let go joseph campbell

What was best years ago, may not be best for today.

What was wrong for you years ago, may be just right for you today.

Just be open to all the universe has to offer.

Let go of what you will “never ever do” again.

Just be open and surprising things will come your way.

BE OPEN.

Sunday, September 18, 2016

The Secret Is Letting Go

 

Letting go is a secret to a happy life.let-go

Letting go means you’re okay with what happens.

It is being okay with the results…whatever they are.

It is allowing things to work themselves out and being okay with HOW they work out.

Letting go is the opposite of holding on. But in order to learn the art of letting go you have to go through knowing what it feels like to hold on to what you want, what you desire, how you think things should go…then…let go of all of that.

It is not easy.  It is actually hard to let go, but the older you get the more you understand it’s one of the keys to the mystery of how to enjoy your life.

 

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Do Your Art. Get Unstuck.

Art doesn’t mean one thing.  It can be many things.

Being an artist is not just for some of us,  it is for all of us. 

We were created to create.  We were not created to consume. 

Create something. Create anything. Especially if you are miserable at work.  It will help you cope.

My son brought me an artist set for Christmas and even though I “do art”; “make art”;”sale art” I never really thought of myself as an artist, but I guess he did.  

I kept thinking that artist draw things, and I never understood how to draw, seemed too much like geometry (and it is).

Art Dec 2015

Well…all it took was to learn some techniques and wa-lah I can draw.  

I keep this on the table in my studio to remind me that this is the result of a couple of hours of practice back in December when I got the kit.  

It reminds me that I  can do anything I put my mind to…and so can you.  I am not stuck.  You are not stuck.  

We create our world.   

So…do your art. Look for it.  Find it.  Create something.  

We are only stuck if think we are. 

 

Sunday, June 19, 2016

It's Not About What You Do, But How You Think About What You Do

After reading the “Just Quit” your job survey results it has occurred to me that people in most every profession is and/or could be miserable doing what they are doing.

It’s not about the profession.

It’s about the mindset while working in that profession.

This makes me think of Tolstoy’s three questions:Three questions

Here people are in lives where they have to work for a living.  They are the wage earners. Most people are miserable going to work everyday. It doesn’t seem to matter how much they are paid.  Doesn’t seem to matter the title. Still, they are miserable.  

So, then what are the answers to Tolstoy’s questions?Three answers

It does NOT matter what you are doing.  It matters what you THINK about what you are doing NOW.  

Get beyond wanting to leave.  Get beyond wanting to be in another/different profession.  Just be okay with what is right now.  

Yep, you are miserable. GET OVER IT. Until you can get over it, it will continue, no matter if you leave where you are, go someplace else…you’ll end up miserable again.  

Challenge: be happy in your misery…embrace the suck.  If you can do that you can move on…until then…misery will follow you where ever you go.

Don’t believe me….below are the professions of folks who are miserable enough to complete the “Just Quit” your job survey… just this month:

  
AccreditationYesterday, 6:19PM
WriterYesterday, 5:15PM
ManagerYesterday, 3:44AM
ManufacturingFriday, Jun 17th 2:31PM
Claims adjudicatorFriday, Jun 17th 8:41AM
casino jobThursday, Jun 16th 7:41PM
casino jobThursday, Jun 16th 7:41PM
Part time Cashier and CatererThursday, Jun 16th 6:38PM
Project Manager Engineer/Microelectronics/technologyThursday, Jun 16th 11:20AM
customer care specialistThursday, Jun 16th 12:33AM
AccountingWednesday, Jun 15th 11:40AM
Slot techWednesday, Jun 15th 11:46AM
Slot techWednesday, Jun 15th 11:46AM
Public servantWednesday, Jun 15th 7:22AM
MusicianWednesday, Jun 15th 4:17AM
Development assistantTuesday, Jun 14th 7:46PM
Retail mamanagementTuesday, Jun 14th 3:12PM
Garbo truck driverTuesday, Jun 14th 9:04AM
DentistTuesday, Jun 14th 1:59AM
mental healthMonday, Jun 13th 6:05PM
AccountantMonday, Jun 13th 5:31PM
Telecom EngineerMonday, Jun 13th 3:26PM
Assistant Account Manager/Retail/DesignMonday, Jun 13th 11:39AM
RetailSunday, Jun 12th 2:38PM
ITSunday, Jun 12th 1:06PM
AccountingSunday, Jun 12th 9:27AM
receptionistSunday, Jun 12th 8:56AM
Design engineerSaturday, Jun 11th 3:19AM
Human resource directorSaturday, Jun 11th 1:38AM
attorneyFriday, Jun 10th 11:11PM
Training & DevelopmentThursday, Jun 9th 11:35PM
Museum/Arts/EducationThursday, Jun 9th 11:02PM
Customer ServiceThursday, Jun 9th 10:34PM
NonprofitThursday, Jun 9th 5:29PM
Food safety officerThursday, Jun 9th 5:45PM
HospitalityThursday, Jun 9th 4:49PM
SalesThursday, Jun 9th 11:23AM
engineeringThursday, Jun 9th 9:24AM
engineerThursday, Jun 9th 6:53AM
disability support workerThursday, Jun 9th 3:57AM
AccountantThursday, Jun 9th 12:03AM
InsuranceWednesday, Jun 8th 11:54PM
BankingWednesday, Jun 8th 11:34PM
FinanceWednesday, Jun 8th 9:40PM
RetailWednesday, Jun 8th 5:32PM
E commerceWednesday, Jun 8th 3:53PM
Admin PRWednesday, Jun 8th 3:17PM
Software ConsultantWednesday, Jun 8th 1:49PM
Resturant managementWednesday, Jun 8th 12:39PM
Pharmaceutical IndustryTuesday, Jun 7th 9:55PM
ExportTuesday, Jun 7th 2:32PM
i am on dis abilityTuesday, Jun 7th 11:09AM
Email marketingTuesday, Jun 7th 6:41AM
recruitMonday, Jun 6th 5:17PM
SuperintendentMonday, Jun 6th 2:16PM
administrative assistantMonday, Jun 6th 1:36PM
ManufacturingMonday, Jun 6th 10:41AM
EducationSunday, Jun 5th 9:58PM
DesignerSunday, Jun 5th 8:35PM
Cashier/supervisorSunday, Jun 5th 3:32AM
CNASunday, Jun 5th 3:29AM
OilSaturday, Jun 4th 6:02PM
journalistSaturday, Jun 4th 11:11AM
Banker; Team Lead Financial LiteracySaturday, Jun 4th 10:27AM
Pharmacy student assistant jobFriday, Jun 3rd 6:30AM
LogisticsFriday, Jun 3rd 5:50AM
Director of Patient ExperienceThursday, Jun 2nd 5:30PM
PurchasingThursday, Jun 2nd 3:25PM
AccountantThursday, Jun 2nd 10:11AM
Assistant Director of Guest ExperienceWednesday, Jun 1st 11:11PM
Investor RelationsWednesday, Jun 1st 8:37PM
RetailWednesday, Jun 1st 8:55PM
7th grade ELA teacherWednesday, Jun 1st 6:52PM
Personal AssistantWednesday, Jun 1st 4:52AM

Today and everyday when you wake up don’t think about how miserable you are.  Even if you want to be doing something difference (and especially if you don’t know what that something different is) think about how you COULD be happy doing what you’re doing, right where you are with the people you are with….why?….because it will help you move on.  

You WILL move on.  Why?  Life is about change. Eventually things will change, don’t delay change by NOT learning the lesson of how to sing while walking in the storm. SING, SMILE. RISE ABOUT IT.