STOP Playing It Safe

I am constantly wrong in my bosses eyes and I cannot do anything right.

I have been accused of unfounded and baseless actions regarding customer service, job performance, time management, accused of saying things that were untrue, and using foul language contributing to the bad behavior.

I’ve been alerted that this job may not be a good fit, by my immediate supervisor.

I have been told I am a phenomenal manager, but I need to work twice as hard because I am a person of color to prove to them that I can do the job, bigger, better and faster.

~Worker Living in UTAH

Sometimes we feel like we are being pushed out of the door and mistreated. Nothing seems to be working out for us. 

Maybe, just maybe, we are in our situations because there is something better for us.

Maybe, just maybe, the universe wants you to get out of your comfort zone…grow…do something else…that maybe BIGGER and BETTER.

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Don't Stop Believing In Your Ideas

I have two business ideas.

One is developing websites which I have clients already.

The other is an idea I know will work:-)

~Worker Living in the DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA

We all have ideas.

Sometimes we have too many ideas.  We can’t figure out which one or ones to pursue.

We’ve tried stuff before and it didn’t work out.

We failed.

We failed again and again with idea after idea.

What makes us think this idea is going to work AND eventually pay the bills?

We won’t know unless we flesh it out.

Today, gather your ideas.  Write them down. Develop them.  See which ones have merit. It doesn’t matter how many times you’ve failed or failed to start (or finish) before.

Today is a new day, work Step 4.

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Fear Is A Choice...So Is Courage

Because after 18 months in that toxic and unprofessional environment that supports bullying and lying, I can no longer pretend to enjoy my role.

I am still unsure what my responsibilities are. There is no scope for growth for me and I report to an incompetent lying lazy person whom I do not trust.

Thinking of going to work makes me feel sick despite fighting the feelings of negativity.

~Worker Living in New Zealand

When we know it’s time to leave, then it’s time to leave.

We don’t have to second hundred guess ourselves.

When it’s time to go; then it’s time to go. 

Don’t be afraid. 

Have courage. 

Start moving in a new direction.

“May My Boss Be Happy Today Day”

I am not happy at all doing what I’ve been doing.

I feel bored doing the same thing over and over again for the past few quarters and I don’t work well with the new superior.

If I’m allowed to… I’d call him a jerk!

~Worker Living in MALAYSIA

We have all been there at one point or another where we think our boss or the bosses are jerks.  They don’t listen, they don’t care, they this and they that. 

You can think they are jerks and you can even call them that (to yourself of course) but what does that get you? You are still stuck.  You are still working for them. 

Instead, just for today, let’s turn it around.  Your boss, everyone’s boss – they are people; they are human just like you are.  You might hate them, think they are not smart, and even think they are jerks.  They might mistreat you; take credit for your work, etc., etc., etc.

Just for today totally focus and say with all sincerity: “May (insert the jerk bosses name here) be happy.”  

It might feel strange when you say it for the first time but say it nonetheless.

We all just want to be happy. 

Wish for your ”jerk” boss that they may be happy.  Somehow showing compassion and letting go of the anger you may feel about your boss loosens something somewhere and things start to positively change.

Give it a try…just for today…if you so desire you can go back to calling them a jerk tomorrow.

Today…all over the world is: “May my boss be happy today” Day.  

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Life Is About Letting Go...Not Holding On

I want to do something different.

~Worker Living in BELGIUM

In order to do something different we have to let go of what we currently are doing.

Letting go is difficult, so don’t expect it to be easy.

You have to let go of what you currently have in order to let come something different.

Life is about letting go, not holding on.

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Scared to Just Quit? Talk To A Millennial. They Are Leading The Way To Meaningful Work.

I couldn’t imagine giving that company a year of my life so I quit at the 3rd month. It was my first job. 

I’m turning 24 at the end of the year and I collected a good amount of money (around 6 thousand dollars).  I was really good at it but it didn’t feel right.  The goals of the company didn’t even come close to match my moral standards; it was like slowly selling your soul to the devil.

Anyway I made the decision at the 45th day of my 90 days working there. 

My team-leader called me in for a 1-on-1 meeting.  I got there and he was telling me how good I was and how I can grow with the company.  That’s when I told him I wanted to quit. At that moment he gave that wise older guy speech about how stupid this decision is THEN he asked me why.

I simply told him the truth. I just didn’t feel like I belonged in there. Deep down I know I deserve better (a better mental and physical atmosphere).  I don’t care about the pay as long as I have a place to live, clothes on my back and food to eat. He didn’t have a good reply and started to talk in procedural language.  I shook his hand and told him it was an honor to work with them and I walked out.

To make a long story short I planned ahead, but even if my plan isn’t 100% successful I wouldn’t have quit if it didn’t FEEL right.

~Worker Living in KUWAIT

Today, if I am miserable in my job and feel like I am “slowly selling my soul to the devil” I will go back to the “Just Quit” Steps and start planning if I have not done so already.

If I have created my plan then I will work my plan.

Even if I don’t believe that the plan will work 100% the way I envision it to work, I will work the plan.

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Poor Job Performance? Bad Job Fit? Being Sabatoged? Visualize Your Dream Job Then Create It.

I am on PIP and my performance is not improving due to employer obstacles.

~ Worker Living in ICELAND

Today, I will treat my performance on this job as a separate issue from who I am. 

I will not allow it to cloud my judgment about myself and my capabilities.

Of COURSE I can perform.  Maybe not on THIS job, but there is something out there for me and I will believe in myself regardless of my “performance” on this job. 

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