Just Quit ≠ Giving Up — It Means Letting Go

Let’s get something straight quitting isn’t always giving up. Sometimes, it’s just being wise enough to let go of what’s not working anymore.

Letting go is not about weakness. It’s about strength. It’s the opposite of holding on for dear life

when it’s already causing pain.

Here’s a quick exercise to feel what I mean:

• Look around and grab something near you. Now hold on to it, tight. Squeeze. Really grip it.
• Feel that tension? Is your arm stiff? Your hand sore? Maybe even your shoulders are tightening?
• Now... just let go.

Did you notice it didn’t require much? Just a choice. A decision.

The pressure stopped the moment you decided to release it. That’s what letting go feels like.  It's a relief. A return to peace.

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What Can You Let Go Of?

The truth is, we carry more than we need...thoughts, habits, stuff, people, beliefs, jobs, grudges, pain. It adds up.

Here are just a few things that may be weighing you down:

• Old beliefs that don’t fit anymore

• Thoughts that loop in your mind

• Feelings that keep you stuck

• Habits you know aren’t healthy

• Overcommitment or chronic busyness

• Clutter (physical or emotional)

• People or relationships you’ve outgrown

• Careers that don’t align

• Financial stress from decisions you regret

• Even faith practices that no longer reflect your truth

Letting go doesn’t mean abandoning your life it means actively choosing what belongs in your life now.

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How to Start Letting Go

Step 1: Decide
Start small. Let go of a thought. Seriously...one thought. Something you think about yourself that you know isn’t helping.
Tell yourself, “I’m going to stop repeating this thought.”
Notice it. Name it. Then choose to release it. That’s the practice.

Step 2: Feel, Then Release
Feelings are real, but they don’t have to be your ruler.
Recognize what you’re feeling, own it, and then give yourself permission to let it pass without acting on it. You don’t have to stay angry. Or stuck. Or sad. Feel it, then let it move on.

Step 3: Let Go of the “Someday” Myth
You don’t have to wait for the promotion, the partner, the weight loss, or the degree to feel content.
Stop tying your happiness to a finish line.
Just quit believing joy is always out there somewhere.
Decide to be content right here, right now.

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Ready for the Deeper Work?

Maybe you’ve already been doing the mindset work and now you’re ready to deal with bigger patterns:

• “I will Just Quit procrastinating.”

• “I will Just Quit numbing my emotions with food, spending, or scrolling.”

• “I will Just Quit ignoring my body, my spirit, or my true self.”

Hard? Yes. Impossible? No. This is the part where transformation lives.

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The Hardest One? Letting Go of Who You’ve Been.

Sometimes the biggest shift is releasing who you thought you were.
The version of you that’s tied to your past, your pain, or other people’s expectations.
That self might’ve kept you safe, but is it helping you grow?

Eventually, we all have to let go...of control, of ego, of identity.
Why wait until your last breath to finally understand the freedom in surrender?

Letting go isn’t giving up.

It’s waking up.

The Most High and the Teenager: A Lesson in Relationships

Have you ever seen a grandparent look at their teenage grandchild and feel a little sadness? It's that moment when the teen is glued to their phone, chatting with friends, and doesn't seem to realize the treasure of wisdom sitting right next to them. The grandparent might think, “If only they’d ask me about life, I’ve got so much to share.” It's a common scene, and while it might make the grandparent a little sad, their love for the grandchild never fades.

Now, think about this: could this same feeling be how the Most High looks at us sometimes?

In our fast-paced, phone-distracted world, it's easy to get caught up in the buzz of daily life, the noise of social media, and the rush of modern distractions. We might forget to stop and ask for guidance, to seek the wisdom that's available to us through faith, prayer, and reflection. Like the grandparent, the Most High might look at us with a similar sadness, knowing that we have so much to gain but are too distracted to receive it.

But here's the good part – just like the grandparent, God still loves us, unconditionally. No matter how distracted we may become, His love never wavers. Just like the grandparent would still offer their wisdom whenever the grandchild is ready to listen, the Most High is always there, ready to guide us when we turn our attention toward Him.

When Layoffs Happen: Finding Strength in Uncertainty

 When Layoffs Happen: Finding Strength in Uncertainty

With the recent layoffs throughout the Federal Government it has left many federal employees—and others—wondering what’s next. It’s a tough moment. Whether you’ve lost your job, are worried about being next, or just feeling stuck, it can feel like the ground has shifted beneath you. But this can also be a turning point, an opportunity to rediscover your strengths and explore new possibilities.

Step 1: Understand What You’re Good At

One of the most powerful things you can do right now is identify your strengths. This isn’t just about what job you had—it’s about what you bring to the table.

Try This Tool: CliftonStrengths (StrengthsFinder) and read the book. It is a popular assessment that can help you discover your top natural talents. Knowing your strengths can:

• Boost your confidence

• Help you explain your value in interviews

• Guide you toward work that feels meaningful

Below is an Example of How You Can Use Knowing Your Strengths

What I’m Good At	What I Enjoy Doing	Where This Could Lead
Organizing data	Solving problems	Analyst, Project Management
Leading teams	Helping people grow	Coaching, Team Leader roles
Writing clearly	Communicating ideas	Content Creation, Marketing

Navigating the Uncertainty of Career Changes

Career changes can feel overwhelming, especially when they aren’t by choice. Whether you’re a federal employee facing potential layoffs, someone leaving a job you’ve outgrown, or dealing with an unexpected job loss, the uncertainty can be frightening but change, while unsettling, also brings opportunities.

Facing the Fear of Change

Losing a job or deciding to quit can stir up anxiety about financial stability, career prospects, and personal identity. Here are some common fears and how to address them:

• Fear of Financial Instability: It’s natural to worry about money when facing a job transition. Start by reviewing your savings and creating a temporary budget. Look into unemployment benefits or severance packages if applicable. Check unemployment benefits.
• Fear of the Unknown: Not knowing what comes next can be daunting. Instead of focusing on what’s lost, shift your mindset to what you can gain. A career change can be an opportunity to pursue a job that aligns better with your goals. Explore job search resources.
• Fear of Starting Over: You may worry about competing with younger candidates or adapting to a new industry. Remember, your experience is valuable. Focus on transferable skills and consider additional training if needed. Find free courses on Coursera.

Your Passions

 Things you are passionate about are not random. They are your calling. 

The Bumper Car Theory of Life

 Life in the Bumper Car Arena: Dodging, Crashing, and Thriving

Life, my friends, is basically one big bumper car ride. You get in, all excited, thinking you’ll glide smoothly around the track. Then—BAM! Someone sideswipes you. A second later—WHAM! You hit a wall you didn’t even see coming. And just when you think you’ve got the hang of it, your car gets stuck in the corner while someone rams into you repeatedly with zero remorse.

Welcome to adulthood.

The State of the Bumper Car Arena

Some people are out here cruising like they’re in a Cadillac commercial, barely getting touched, others are driving like they have no insurance, hitting anything that moves. There are those poor souls who don’t even have bumpers anymore—one more hit, and they’re completely out of commission. You know the type: the person who’s one bad customer service call away from a total meltdown or the coworker whose emotional airbags deployed years ago, leaving them raw and exhausted.

So, how do we not just survive this chaos but actually thrive in it?

1. Check Your Bumpers

Your bumpers are your resilience. If yours are worn down to the metal, every hit is going to hurt a lot more. Self-care isn’t just bubble baths and scented candles (though those are nice) it’s setting boundaries, getting enough sleep, and sometimes saying, “No, I will not cover your shift again because you ‘forgot’ you had exercise class.”

My Eye-Opening Visit to a Dietitian: What I Learned About Nutrition

Visiting a dietitian was one of the most informative experiences I've ever had when it comes to nutrition. She broke down everything in a way that was easy to understand and gave me practical tools to improve my eating habits. Here’s what I learned:

The Plate Method: A Simple Way to Eat Healthier

One of the most valuable lessons was using The Plate Method to create balanced meals. She showed me a plate that visually divides portions:

• ½ of the plate – Non-starchy vegetables (broccoli, spinach, carrots, peppers)
• ¼ of the plate – Protein (chicken, fish, tofu, beans)
• ¼ of the plate – Starches (whole grains, potatoes, quinoa)

This method helps with portion control and ensures I’m getting the right nutrients in every meal. Honestly, this should be taught in schools!

Understanding Insulin Resistance

Embracing Change: Starting the New Year by Letting Go

The start of a new year is a powerful time for reflection and renewal. As we turn the page on last year,

we’re gifted with a fresh opportunity to create the lives we truly want. But creating something new often requires letting go of the old — habits, relationships, or mindsets that no longer serve us.

Why Letting Go is Essential

Letting go isn’t about giving up or failing; it’s about making space. Imagine trying to fill a glass that’s already brimming with stale water. To add something fresh you need to pour out the old first. The same principle applies to our lives.

When we hold onto unfulfilling jobs, toxic relationships, or outdated beliefs, we deny ourselves the chance to grow. These attachments can weigh us down and prevent us from embracing the possibilities waiting just beyond our comfort zones.

Signs It’s Time to Let Go

How do you know when it’s time to release something? Here are a few clues:

1. It Drains Your Energy: If a situation, person, or habit leaves you feeling exhausted rather than energized, it may be time to reevaluate.